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Q:
“I recently had a really strange experience where someone was playing with my ass, and I think I came. Is this possible- I know men have a prostate, but what about girls? Was this real or did I imagine it?”
A:
First, I’d like to welcome you to a whole new world you’ve discovered. What you experienced was most likely a real orgasm. If it wasn’t possible and pleasurable, why do you think so many people would be up to these sorts of activities?
As for your second question, there is no one agreed-upon theory on why, exactly, it is possible for girls to orgasm this way. There are two theories as to how this works; they are not particularly different, but are both a bit surprising.
First, some background: the clitoris and the penis are made of the same tissues, and are actually homologous organs (in other words, they are more or less the same structure). The clitoris is actually about 6 or 8 inches long- what you can see is only the tip of the iceberg, so to speak, and the rest is buried inside the body.
Now, unlike the penis, the clitoris is not a straight shaft – instead, it is shaped like a wishbone. The external aspect of the clitoris makes up the tip of the wishbone shape; from here, it extends backwards in two parts. The area right before this split is thought to be the location of the G-Spot. The remainder of the clitoris, or “clitoral wings” in some parlance, is what is thought to be the cause of anal orgasms. Because of their length, these “wings” are in a location that allows for stimulation through anal contact.
Another theory as to how anal orgasms work revolves around the mysterious Skene’s Gland. As well as it’s presumed role in anal orgasm, the Skene’s Gland has been credited for the phenomenon of female ejaculation. However, not much is understood about it; scientists are unsure as to its precise location, or even whether or not all women even have it. While the Skene’s Gland might have something to do with what you experienced, it is far more likely that your anal orgasm was just another type of clitoral orgasm.
If anyone has been inspired by this column and is considering giving anal play a try, remember, it can be safe and fun if you do it right. Lube is crucial: the anus is a delicate body part, and improper lubrication can lead to scratches, tears, and other uncomfortable conditions. When you’re dealing with fingers, always make sure your partner’s fingernails are trimmed and filed. And ladies, this next one is most important: if you ever have anything inserted into your butt, whether it’s a finger, a toy, or a penis, NEVER let it ANYWHERE near your vagina until it has been thoroughly cleaned; if you don’t, you’re practically begging for a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). I assure you, one UTI and you will seriously regret it.
